Learn Erotic Massage
for healing and pleasure
Receiving an Erotic Massage, we can learn to enhance our capacity for physical and emotional intimacy. We can teach our bodies to feel more and more pleasure. We can develop our spiritual capacities, exploring ecstatic states of expanded awareness. We can heal sexual wounds, and feel profound bliss.
Ecstatic Erotic Massage is full-body massage that can include prolonged and creative genital stimulation. Recipients are encouraged to breathe deeply, attending to the cascade of sensation within the body, while still communicating with the person touching them. Ecstatic Erotic Massage is a mindfulness practice that allows the people receiving to go deeply into their own body experience.
Somatic Sex Educator Caffyn Jesse calls Ecstatic Erotic Massage the most important tool in her practice. Caffyn supports diverse people on their journeys to sexual wholeness, through body-based exercises and experiences.
In a series of videos and beautifully illustrated E-Books, Caffyn Jesse describes the principles of Ecstatic Erotic Massage and demonstrates its usefulness in healing, awakening and expanding our sexuality. She offers step-by-step instructions for erotic massage practitioners, and guidance for receivers. She discusses the importance of the practice, offering unique insights of special importance to people working and learning in this field.
Written teachings cover Ecstatic Erotic Massage for women, men and non-binary genders, plus a special focus on anal massage. Over an hour of videos show Caffyn offering Ecstatic Erotic Massage to several women.
Caffyn Jesse is a queer elder, sacred intimate and writer who revels in the power and pleasures of the erotic. They are exploring intersections between psychedelic medicine, sexual wellness, transformative justice and queer ecology.
Caffyn taught for many years in the Sexological Bodywork and Somatic Sex Education professional trainings, as well as offering a weeklong training for Intimacy Educators, plus occasional workshops on topics ranging from pelvic pain to sex in long-term relationships. They offered trauma training for professionals who touch. Encouraging neuroplastic change to support sexual healing and expanded pleasure, unwinding sexual trauma, exploring the intersection of sex and spirit, creating erotic community – Caffyn Jesse has welcomed people from around the world to their Salt Spring Island studio. They have researched and written on the science of sexological bodywork, neurobiology and sexual healing, trauma, orgasm coaching and many other topics. Her books include Science for Sexual Happiness , Intimacy Educator: Teaching with Touch, Elements of Intimacy and Pelvic Pain Clinic.