Learn Erotic Massage

Empowerment, Intimacy, Ecstasy

Receiving an Erotic Massage, we can learn to enhance our capacity for physical and emotional intimacy. We can teach our bodies to feel more and more pleasure. We can develop our spiritual capacities, exploring ecstatic states of expanded awareness. We can heal sexual wounds, and feel profound bliss.

Ecstatic Erotic Massage is full-body massage that can include prolonged and creative genital stimulation. Recipients are encouraged to breathe deeply, attending to the cascade of sensation within the body, while still communicating with the person touching them. Ecstatic Erotic Massage is a mindfulness practice that allows the people receiving to go deeply into their own body experience.

Somatic Sex Educator Caffyn Jesse calls Ecstatic Erotic Massage the most important tool in her practice. Caffyn supports diverse people on their journeys to sexual wholeness, through body-based exercises and experiences.

In a series of videos and beautifully illustrated E-Books, Caffyn Jesse describes the principles of Ecstatic Erotic Massage and demonstrates its usefulness in healing, awakening and expanding our sexuality. She offers step-by-step instructions for erotic massage practitioners, and guidance for receivers. She discusses the importance of the practice, offering unique insights of special importance to people working and learning in this field.

Written teachings cover Ecstatic Erotic Massage for women, men and non-binary genders, plus a special focus on anal massage. Over an hour of videos show Caffyn offering Ecstatic Erotic Massage to several women.

Your Instructor

Caffyn Jesse
Caffyn Jesse

Encouraging neuroplastic change to support sexual healing and expanded pleasure, unwinding sexual trauma, exploring the intersection of sex and spirit, creating erotic community – Caffyn Jesse has welcomed people from around the world to workshops at their Salt Spring Island studio. Caffyn is now retired, and is making all her teachings and resources available in these online programs.

Caffyn taught the Sexological Bodywork and Somatic Sex Education professional trainings as well as a weeklong training for Intimacy Educators, plus occasional workshops on topics ranging from pelvic pain to sex in long-term relationships. They offered trauma training for professionals who touch.

People of all gender identities and sexual orientations are welcomed and celebrated in Caffyn’s classes and workshops.

Caffyn is a prolific author who has researched and written on the science of sexological bodywork, neurobiology and sexual healing, trauma, orgasm coaching and many other topics. Her books include Science for Sexual Happiness , Intimacy Educator: Teaching with Touch, Elements of Intimacy and Pelvic Pain Clinic.

Course Curriculum

  Touching Women - Anatomy and Strokes
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  Touching Men - Anatomy and Strokes
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  Touching Gender - Undoing Assumptions
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  Anal Massage
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Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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